In the past, I have advised many friends the best time to show a woman how much you love her is in the moments after making love.
Ladies, if I am wrong please feel free to let me know.
This poem was inspired by one of my favorite love songs sung by English pop singer Engelbert Humperdinck; After the Lovin’.
So I sing you to sleep
After the lovin’
With a song I just wrote yesterday
And I hope you can hear
What the words and the music have to say. -Engelbert Humperdink
After The Lovin’
Baby, please don’t close your pretty eyes
I still have so much loving to share
Too many hours to explore
for us to converse,
to kiss,
to care
Honey, let me taste your sweet pouty lips
paint your toe nails shades of pink
can’t miss a moment of you
I refuse to sleep,
to nap,
to blink
Oh Darling, let me recite this little verse
Whisper poems to tease and flirt
We still have time to adore
loving ‘til dawn,
‘til day,
’til it hurts
And I know that my song
isn’t saying anything new
Oh, but after the lovin’
I’m still in love with you
-Engelbert Humperdink
ahh, such wonderful lines….the most beautiful parts of a relationship often occur in those moments after the lovin’…great poem inspired by a great song…
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Thanks Thomas. I really love that song.
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You are welcome, Andrew
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In college, I had the pleasure of knowing this incredible lady that suggested we made love with another with every sincere act of affection. That it was in the small moments of reading to your lover, brushing her hair, cooking soup when they were under the weather … it was in those details that love is truly made between two people. That has always stuck with me — and perhaps made me a little more difficult to woo. I think your words speak that very same message. Beautifully done, friend.
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Thank you for your kind words. If a man wants to show love, taking her to a fancy dinner & saying “I love you” is nice. But painting her toe nails, a nice massage, washing or brushing her hair, cooking her dinner, and gestures like that mean a lot more. Doesn’t it?
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You nailed it … the fancy dinner and the “words” are NICE. But the effort, the time, the adoration, the thought behind every action makes LOVE come to LIFE. Nice doesn’t even come close to describing that type of interaction and connection.
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Siren, I wish I could attach your comments to my work. Agree 100%.
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First, an all time favorite song! Second – this is absolutely beautiful.
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Oh, thank you so much. Happy you enjoyed. The gestures after making lover mean more than love making itself.
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I absolutely agree!
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The best time to tell it show someone how much you care – anytime you feel like it. There’s no right or wrong time. Reserving those special words for after love making can be a little cliche. Certainly not unappreciated, but expected. While your cooking, give her a nice hug, tell her how you feel. Driving in the car, take her hand, tell her how you feel. Embrace the moment ❤️❤️❤️
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Oh, I think the the weakest words in the English language are “I love you.” Being a writer I DEEPLY believe in the first rule of writing; SHOW don’t TELL. It is through gestures and action that we truly demonstrate the feelings that we have. Hey, thanks for stopping by to read and comment. Hope you have a great day.
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“show, don’t tell” I like that. 🙂
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Writing rule number one. I use it in my relationships and friendship as well.
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I will be there. Thanks for sharing.
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Once again, you are so right. One of the sweetest times we can have together as couples is right “after.” It’s time for kisses and conversation!
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Yeah, the whole roll over and snore kind of ruins the moment. Even worse is when my lovers snore during sex. Kills my ego. lol Thanks Meg, I feel silly.
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HAHAHA! I have a very hard time imagining that happening to you! You are silly!
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Smiling. Meg, when you get a chance read my second post of today, “She.” Want to know your thoughts. Thanks
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Will do! Working my way through the reader right now!
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Thanks
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This got me into fits of laughter. I can imagine a chimp scratching his head and stroking his chin 😀
Am sure you’ve never had to face such a situation though so can be playful about it 🙂
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LOL You have me in tears. It’s true. When she sleeps as I am in the throes of passion – very ego deflating. lol
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😀
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This is beautiful👌🏼 Yes, that is one of the best times😉 You are a great guy Andrew. Keep this up. You’re inspiring. Love it❤️ Have a great day! Get some sleep!
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Aw, thank you. Smiling. Thanks for the kind words. I will nap a little later. Have a great day.
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I am almost positive you won’t find a woman, or many men, that would disagree with you. Personally, I would rather have the love, affection and attention afterwards, than before. What a lovely romantic you are Sir. 🙂
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So far none. Me too. Its all the gestures that demonstrate love. They mean so much more. Yeah, I am a helpless…er… hopeless romantic. Thanks
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Helpless, Hopeless, Hapless, it all works.😃
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How about idiotic chimp. I am getting a hard time over the toe nail painting. I am in tears. Yeah, they all describe MOI.
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If you would put your mouth on unmentionable places, why the hell wouldn’t you paint her toenails? 👅
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I love women’s feet. There I said it. Anyone who wants to be with me needs to be open tomy relationship with her feet.
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Nothing wrong with that. 🙂
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Two thumbs up
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Maybe two toes up?
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Bad bad girl.. Yeah, I like it.
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😃💋 thanks for the continued smiles.
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Simply Beautiful my friend. Any woman would be lucky to love you. Your wife is a lucky lady indeed.
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Thanks. Blushing. Thanks for saying that. I have my flaws as well. Nobody is perfect.
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None of us are perfect. That would be impossible now wouldn’t it? Smiles.
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Yeah it would be.
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I think you have a profound understanding of love and making someone feel special.
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Aw, thank you for saying that. You enjoy writing. Rule number one. SHOW don’t TELL. It works with love as well. Thanks for stopping by.
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You’re welcome 🙂
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I agree with most of what you say but personally I think cuddling together is quite something too. I am not too sure about painting toenails after lovemaking. “Honey, no, pass me that leg. What do I care if it is freezing outside. I wanna show you some looooove so gimme your toes right now. It’s ok if you freeze a bit. I will heat them up after I’ve painted em. uh oh repeat session sweetheart, I think I smudged your toenails while heating your toes” 😛
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LOL Are you organizing stuff again. Your humor makes me think you are. CMBO
Crying my butt off. <—I just made that one up.
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Ah ah ah.I did some sorting of documents I need to send my lawyer. The combination of both the thought of a lawyer and administrative work is pretty lethal so a mega dose of humour is required. I think myself silly with the most absurd jokes and thoughts during those times. If you read my page you’ll see that I also ranted in a very unusual and silly billy way while yesterday it was a more subtle poetic write about more or less the same feelings 😀
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I have to go through your comments. Need to see this other side of you.
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Ah ah ah, you shouldknow by now that women are sometimes onething and its opposite without batting a lid
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Oh, I know. That is what makes them so fascinating.
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😀
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So, what does it mean if they just mutter something about an early meeting and then take off?
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That is not nice. That is the equivalent of making love then using her navel as an ash tray.
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You’re a hopeless romantic, Andrew. 🙂
Nice poem.
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Smiling. Thanks
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You are the ultimate romantic male. It’s not that I hate you; I just hate that my wife has replaced ALL of my pictures with YOURS! 😀
In all honesty, I’ll bet your writing has helped many couples rekindle sparks in their relationships. This is just as important as nutrition and exercise and a vital component of living a healthy lifestyle. Thank you for all that you offer.
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LOL Now, you really have me in tears. Oh, Doc, you’re kill me. My wife hates email. She was just complaining that she received two from Lonely Author and she unfollowed me. She reads my stuff straight from the computer why receive emails? What a funny crazy day this has turned out ot be. Thanks
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Now that’s funny!!! I am very happy a day that started in such pain has turned into a day of laughter. Helps reduce some of the pain, doesn’t it?
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Yes it does. Turned out to be a bit wacky. I feel so lucky. Thanks.
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Wise words by the legend Englebert….
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Yeah, good old Engelbert knew a thing or two. Thanks for stopping by.
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🙂
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Do you give lessons?
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Only in Being Silly 101
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Too bad – it’s the serious side I really like. Something special there. Though, yeah, the silly is really, really funny.
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Thanks for saying that. I think life is too short. So, I try to have fun. But I take the writing stuff pretty seriously.
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sweet
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Thanks
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Many hours to explore – love it and
Taste your sweet pouty lips.. That is so sweet 😊
Another great romantic write.. Makes me smile..
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smiling. Thanks, I truly think the time after making love is th best time of all. Love and enjoy the glow. And I have a thing for pouty lips. lol
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You are a wise man.. It is the best
And hey – pouty lips are sexy 😊
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Pouty lips = melted Lonely Author. Thanks for saying that. You are a writer. Rule number one. SHOW don’t TELL. Same applies to love.
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Agreed 😊 it is the only way – lucky wife you have 😊
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Smiling. Thanks
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Love it!….and where are those damn men that will paint nails,
etc…the guy in the picture looks tasty, I’ll just take him LOL!!!
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LOL The hunk in the photo isn’t exactly my type. As for the toe nail painting. Here I am. Thanks for stopping by.
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Well, if you paint my nails, I want a foot massage too;)
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Seriously, I do those as well. Also a good shoe shopping companion.
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Don’t think your wife would like that😉 You like horror movies, could use a movie companion😜
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LOL We do that as well.
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This is so beautiful… I’m not sure exactly why, but it made me cry. Not in a bad way!
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Oh, sorry. Thank yuo forsaying that. I really believe in showing love and not saying it.
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No apology needed! It was that good happy sort of cry. Like at the end of Tangled when Eugene comes back to life form her tear. Wow, yeah, I just illustrated my point with a Disney “Princess” movie.
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LOL Disney has ruined many women’s lives. As Playbot has done with men.
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Show your love through action and often in those ordinary everyday practical moments…these are those little treasured snippets of affection so lovingly shown and which mean so much…indeed the word love is much over and mis used…but in this instant, love your poem. Thanks.
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Thank you. I love that writing rue of show don’t tell. I believe that it should apply to love as well. Thank you for reading it.
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Aw. Very sweet.
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Thanks
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Beautiful poem written by a loving heart! Your poetry is shining lately my friend!
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Oh, I said I was going to write love poems the next six weeks leading up to Valentines Day. There is one I wrote that has more symolism that I usually use. Get that from reading you and Thomas.
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Oh wow, I must have missed that statement. Looking forward to reading all of them! 🙂
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Smiling. If you khave a moment read Pretty Girl Unloved. That one is different from my usual stuff.
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I will 😀
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u r so much romantic i think how can dt girl forget u.ur loving lines of ur song tell as u feels.
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Smiling. Thank you for saying that. You are very kind
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oh lonely auther !! u will be in love after the lovin.in dt photo is related u n ur beloved(wife)?
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No, that is not my wife. That poem is about loving after the lovin’. I hope you liked it.
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oh!welcome for so cute poem.
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Thanks
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welcome.
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I didn’t know those were the lyrics.. Think I used to play it on the piano.
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Nice. You play the piano. Are you good?
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Used to be. But now twenty something years later, no practice and tone deaf! Can’t even play happy birthday anymore! Oh well. So now, maybe I’ll try something new?
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Writing. What can be better than that?
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