Photograph taken by unknown source. It is the only remaining photo of Lonely Author’s mother.
This is for every woman who made the sacrifice of putting their dreams on hold.
Dreams On Hold
Once upon a time
She met a man
Placed her dreams on hold
She slaved for a boss
Ran home to cook meals
Birth a little treasure
Years of housework
Abuse and neglect
Devoted herself to husband’s pleasures
Sacrificed for everyone
Gave up everything
Including herself
And her happiness
Her boy is living his dream
She missed the train of life
Everyone left her behind
She lived unappreciated
Forgotten
Alone
Sad but so true
People forget
Little girls have dreams
too
Blimey.
That is good.
Deep.
Loving.
Sums up a caring Mother.
Beautiful.
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Thank you for stopping by to read. It kind of does, doesn’t it. Gives up her own dreams for everyone else.
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Absolutely. I know my mother did on many levels.
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That is what mothers do. Shame they can’t ive forever. Thank you.
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Indeed. Take care and have a good day.
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Thank you so much. You have a wonderful day.
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π
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So sad, but sometimes so true.
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Unfortunately, yes it is. How many women give up their dreams for love and family? And I am sure given the chance, they would do it all over again. Thank you for stopping by to read.
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Thank you. π
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That’s very sad but also rather beautiful. Parents in general and mothers in particular often sacrifice so much for their children. I know mine did, and I still feel guilty about it to this day even though they’ve never once complained about it.
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Smiling. And they would all the sacrifices all over again if they could. You’re a parent, you do the same I am sure.
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It’s true. My parents have actually said as much. I’ll have to cut this reply short now before I start blubbing like a baby. π
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lol
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Beautiful Andrew, just like your mom π
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Smiling. Thank you.
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Welcome π
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Emotional and beautiful!
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Thank you so much for stopping by to sday that and thanks for reading. Someone needs to remember their sacrifices. To many women give up everything for their family.
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Beautiful. That’s all I can say.
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You said enough. Thank you so much for reading.
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Mom is beautiful. Get the picture fixed right away so that you don’t lose it. Her life sounds sad and confining. Hopefully being a Mom gave her joy and satisfaction.
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Smiling. Yeah, she was one of those unselfish women giving up everything for family. The photo has been taken care of. This was a file from my computer. Thank you so much for your kind words.
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Hardly unappreciated, given this poem… And my guess is that little boy became her dream and her happiness, but that might be the mother bias in me. My favorite line, though, has to be “little girls have dreams too.” That started the water works for me for real. Thank you for sharing this!
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Aw, thank you for sharing that. How many women give up their dreams for love & family. No one ever thinks about it. Almost as if, she’s SUPPOSED to do that. It is a sacrifice. So many women really give up their dreams.
I want to be a good man, husband, and published author. That way her efforts weren’t in vain. Thanks for stopping by to read & contribute such thoughtful words to this post. I appreciate it.
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Always a pleasure to visit, but especially to read. You’re one of my favorite authors, these days… π
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Smiling. Never thought I would hear that. Thank you. Blogging has been a blessing for me. Have a wonderful day.
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Very sad. The plot was lost along the line of looking after others. Unfortunately, a lot of women still go through this.
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Everyday women give themselves up for others. And so many people still think women are SUPPOSED to do this. Thus my words, little girl have dreams too. Thank you for stopping by to read.
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I like you π
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Smiling. Thanks.
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Oh how beautiful! Both mother and the words of appreciation β€οΈ
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Smiling. Thank you so much for saying that. Much appreciated.
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Wow! She’s so beautiful!
Beautiful post… Sad, too…
I think no one should put their dreams and life on hold. It’s unfair.
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Nodding. Yeah, Monica, it is unfair. Putting their dreams aside while everyone else can chase theirs. Thank you for your kind words and thoughts. You make sure you chase after your dreams.
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I will and I am sure my father will be there to push me to fulfil my dreams π
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Smiling. I know he will. You make a good team.
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Yes, we really make a good team. Thanks π
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Oh, how bittersweet yet so lovely! You are gifted…
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She must be so proud to have son like YOU…:)
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Smiling. I think she was. Thanks for reading and for your kind words.
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*smiles*
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Beautiful… and it really touched me. I see my mom in it… And even myself.
And that’s a lovely photo — but sad it’s the only one.
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Yeah, so many things happened in life and I eventually lost every photo I had of my parents. That is all that remains. When I wrote this I was thinking of all the women that give up their dreams for love & family. If you see your mom and yourself in this poem, then you’re seeing 2 great women who understand the words selfsacrificing. You need to be admired. Thanks for stopping by to read and comment. I am so happy to know someone like you.
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Thank you… you’re very sweet to say such lovely things. On photos — I always felt lucky that my dad enjoyed his camera so much. He took tons of photos and even collected some from his family (not easy since he was here in the US and they were still in Italy). Because of him, we have lots of pictures. And when he got too sick to continue taking new ones, I made sure I always took them.
(Sorry… got a little off topic there!)
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That is quite okay. I had plenty of photos but years of moving, a fire, and other unfortunate things left me with only one. Treasure the photos.
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You honor her memory with your beautiful words. Not just these today but the ones you pen every day. The way you write about women, how you love them in life and on paper, shows how well she taught you. She WOULD be proud, I am sure of that!
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She was my primary teacher. Thank you for your words. You really touched me with these comments. My eyes are tearing. Thanks.
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Smiling. And sniffling.
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Me too
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Oh how I can relate in so many levels of this one. Your mother was a beautiful lady.
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Thank you for saying that Leslie. I am sure the two of you would have gotten along. I believe you are one of those special ladies who gave up her dreams for love and family. Self sacrifice is an amaxing trait to have. That alone, makes you special.
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I haven given up many things for my son. Smiles.
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That is why Scarlett’s anger possesses my body every time you refused to accept a compliment. LOL It is my mission to bore you and tell you how wonderful you are. You will get sick of me!
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I will tire of you. Thank you for being so kind and for all the many compliments. You’re more than kind.
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You WILL tire of me??? I hope that was a typo. LOL
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Laughing!!! I forgot to type NOT.
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I was hoping so. Chimp almost fell out of his seat. Leslie, please, let me know when you decide to give out “Best Friend Applications.” I want to apply.
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Lol.. I most certainly will.
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Smiling
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Beautiful tribute
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Thanks
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Wow! You have actually pulled tears from my eyes. Little girls do have dreams too. Thank you for acknowledging that. And thank you for acknowledging your mother in such a beautiful way. I have always told my kids, there are many kinds of love. Great kinds of love. But, there is NOTHING in this entire world, bigger than Mommy Love. I know, because I have seen it, felt it, lived it and LOVED IT! XOXO
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Tears?? Thanks for saying that. Nothing bigger or more self sacrificing than Mommy love. Terrible that soemtimes we don’t realize it until it is too late. Thank you for your kind words. As always, you made me smile.
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How the Hell does that work? You make me cry and I make you smile? That’s seriously fucked up you sick bastard! π
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Hahaha… The is an odd relationship. Almost sound like you’re trapped in am abusive one. lol
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NEVER abusive! I LOVE the pain. π
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Laughing. Hey, can we somehow write a duet??? I wouldn’t be able to post it on my blog because I am trying to keep it R rated, but we can post on yours if you would like. What do you think?
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HELL YES!!!!! There you go, making me cry again. π
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Let me get past a few of life hurdles and we can diccuss it. Thanks
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Email me when you are ready. I’ll be waiting anxiously. π
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Cool
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Motherhood….I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Beautiful photo of your mom! I’m sure she’s very proud of you π
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Thank you. Motherhood is the greatest thing in the world. I hope she was. Thanks.
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This one brought tears to my eyes. My mom worked so hard, ran a farm/ranch, raised seven children (I’m the youngest) almost on her own, since my dad worked out of state all but three or so months of the year. It would take pages for me to list all her daily chores. When I was a ways into adulthood–it took me that long to realize parents are people too–I asked her if she’d had a happy life. Her answer was that it had been satisfying. I know her children were her life. At the age of 87, she collapsed at home–I was visiting at the time. Months before that, her doctor had told her (she felt exhausted all the time) that her body and heart were worn out, and there was no drugs to fix that. She posted a DNR on the fridge in her house, and told us that if something happened to her, to let her go. After her collapse (we think she suffered a stroke) we–her children–took care of her in her home until she passed on a cold January night 4 months later. My dad followed her about a year later at the age of 94. We took care of him in the home he’d shared with Mama too. Neither died in a hospital, but in their own bed surrounded by their children.
I know my mom would have lived her life the same if given a choice–as I would.
I quit writing to raise my son. If I hadn’t, maybe I would be a published author now. But I wouldn’t go back and change anything–my son is my world. And he has told me many times, of the wonderful childhood memories he has involving his dad and me, how loved he felt. He’s a good man, husband, and father. He is my life’s greatest accomplishment.
Whew, I went on and on. So sorry, but thinking about my wonderful mama does that to me.
A lovely post, Andrew. I would lay odds you made a lot of mother’s day. π
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Smiling. Your post gave me a knot in my throat. What a wonderful story. Like you, I was at my parents side when each one passed. It is the least we can do for them. Mothers give up dreams, their lives, and more to raise us. I know people measure greatest & success in different ways, but I see your mother & self sacrificing women like her as great women. You sound like your pretty awesome, too. I am lucky to have met you. Thank you for stropping by to contribute your heartfelt story and your amazing words. Mucho appreciated.
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Thanks, Andrew. No awesome here, just a mama who loves her (grown) baby boy.
Sounds as if you were a loving son, and grew into a good man. A mother can ask for no more.
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You made me blush. Never underestimate the sacrifice mothers make. You included.
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Thanks. π
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Sigh…. yes. I have seven treasures of my own. My mother and grandmother I feel devoted everything to their families. My mother still does. Drove two hours yesterday to help me with the kids then drove back a few hours later.
Your mother was beautiful β‘
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Thank you, unfortuantely, this chimp looks nothing like her. There isn’t a pedestal high enough to demonstrate the sacrifices mothers make. Your mom still gives up her time & dreams for others. Amazing woman. Some may think I am overstating it, but I really believe self sacrificing women are the greatest ones of all. Every doctor, lawyaer, president, all came from mothers. Thanks for stopping by to contribute your lovely thoughts.
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Very sad but beautiful.
And the photo is almost ethereal.
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Smiling. Thank you. Sorry, to say this. But this poem was written for women like YOU. I know you put your dreams aside for love and family. You are a great woman. And I am proud to be your friend.
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I knew it was π and I appreciate you as a human, a father to your daughter, a husband to your wife and a friend, my friend. Thank YOU for being YOU!
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Aw, that was so sweet. Thank you.
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Blimey, were you talking to me while writing this?
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Smiling. I was writing for ALL mothers. So, if the shoe fits….
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The nature of being a Mother is such that a major part of her hopes and dreams involve instilling life and love into her children. Dedication, ambition, talents, skills, attitudes, sense of humanity…these are a few. So the soul behind that sweet loving expression of that young girl in the photo lives on forever. That’s the way it is! Beautiful writing….thanks for posting it. π
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Thank you for reading it & contributing such beautiful words to this post. Mothers are everything.
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Every woman who is a mother does the best job at it as she can.
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I know. Just wanted to show appreciation for the sacrifices.
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I understand that. I think that thoughtful thanks from a child is part of the legacy, the recognition of gratitude as innate rather than due to prodding. My kids aren’t required in any way to “thank” me for anything…but I am glad that they do in various ways. way with most Moms.
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Beautiful. Thanks for contributing yur thoughts to this post. Much appreciated.
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nice post
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Wow! I bet you if you were to ask her… She would probably answer you: “My dreams are being fulfilled through you now; yes, I’m the driven force to your inspiration.” I honestly can identify to this masterpiece of yours. Thank you for sharing it. Your Mother looks lovely.
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Thanks for your kind contribution to this post. We need to be the best people we can be so our mother’s efforts would not be in vain. Thanks
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Ah man! This one’s too sad! How so you expect me to add sarcasm here?
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LOL Don’t worry. One day I will write a post about Dads where no one will give a crap. And you can do double sarcasm there. lol
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Sounds good to me.
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I’ll be thinking about this today. It speaks volumes about a mother’s decisions. She sounds like a tough woman. Precious writing!
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Aw, thank you. This work goes for all mothers. Thanks for stopping by to read.
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A stunning photo and truthful words. Where i live, this was the norm, for decades. It is slowly changing but I wonder what percentage of girls still put their dreams on hold for the sake of another? Great write, my friend!
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Thank you so much for contributing your kind thoughts.
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You are welcome, Andrew!
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Another beautiful piece my friend! I feel so many things reading this. But more importantly that YOU brought out the real beauty and truth of being a mom. You understand it whole heartedly, I love you for that. You are such a sincere man and seeing that in your writing is s true gift that I can’t wait to keep opening! Thank youπ You had a beautiful and amazing mother~God bless her and you!
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You touched me with your sweet comments. To know that my words penetrated your awesome boobs and touched your heart. Wow, (Sorry for that. I am laughing so freaking hard). Okay. Seriously. You are so kind. All mothers making incredible sacrifices for love and family, and many times it goes unnoticed. Sometimes, I wish I cvould have given birth. And thanks for the words about my mom, I miss her.
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Okay, I’m dyingπ So I guess this will be something between us now huh? (And everyone who reads these comments!) Just speaking the truth Andrew! That’s very sweet and I’m sorry you miss her but you know what kind of a mother she was and that alone will give you some sort of peaceπ
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Sorry, I connect with you and your sense of humor. I will behave. Thank you for your sweet message. I try to be the man she wanted me to be and I try to seek solce in that. Thanks my friend.
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Don’t be sorry, it’s all good! Lolπ That’s awesomeππΌ You’re welcome my friendππ»β€οΈ
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Laughing. Thanks.
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Wow! How lovely of a picture! And wonderful words to accompany it. π
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Thank you for your kind words. I suspect you know a little about giving up so much for love and family.
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π You are a wise and perceptive man… No wonder you write well! π
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Smiling. So kind of you to say that. Thanks you.
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Oh man… πβ€πβ€
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Smiling. Thanks.
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Lovely as always.
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Thank you.
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sad, story of many women, glad you are living her dreams, may be she missed the train behind but she did let her son catch one and that in itself is the victory of every Mother. π Love this poem and your mom was very beautiful..!! β‘
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Aw, what beautiful thoughts. Thank you so much for saying that. You made my day.
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Well said for all the mothers who have placed their children ahead of themselves.
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Thanks for reading John. Appreciate it.
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She looks, and sounds, like a beautiful woman. As beautiful as your tribute to her.
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Aw, thank you so much for your kind words. Much appreciated.
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Beautiful mother, with a beautiful soul…..
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Aw, thank you for saying that. That was so sweet.
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Thanks for stopping by to read. I appreciate it.
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No problem π
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I wish I had a mama like that. I wish I was a mama like that. So touching.
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Nice picture!
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Thank you so much
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Slightly off topic, but are you an only child? Wasn’t sure if that was implied?
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Yeah, had did you know?
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Reading between the lines. I am not a writer, but I listen to a lot of people. I try to listen for what is said, and to what is not said. You only mentioned one birth and only yourself in connection to her. She raised you well and I am sure she is very proud of you.
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Smilling. Very observant. Yeah, only me. Thank you very much for saying that. Anything and everything good in me comes from her. I guess that is why I am senstive to the female cause. Thanks for your sweet comments. Mucho appreciated.
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My pleasure! Now, of course I want to hear about your father.
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Completely different story. Abusive alcoholic. I wacthed the crap my mother had to put up with, thus I understand and defend women.
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Oh boy! Thank God you went that way! Other people might have identified with their father and gone in that direction. Very hard to have a clear perspective when living in a blender and walking on egg shells. Kudos to you! Now, you know I am going to ask how your children are?! I can’t seem to stop myself! Sorry!
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Perhaps I have lived my life TOO determined to be unlike him. That is okay. One daughter, 22, an anthropology major graduating next year.
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Beautiful! Life’s reward! Many blessings to you and your family!
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Smiling. Thank you. Wishing the same blessing to you and yours.
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Reblogged this on By the Mighty Mumford and commented:
SAD BUT EXPRESSIVE. i’M REMEMBERING MY MOM, TOO!
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Smiling, They made great sacrifices for us. Thanks for the reblog.
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Often the pattern repeats itself, but why? Why do we come to expect this incredible sacrifice of self? Their willingness to accept this role for the sake of others is both remarkable and sad. Your mother was a beautiful woman as well as a beautiful person.
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Thank you so much for saying that. The sacrifices they make (sometimes unappreciated or unnoticed). And if they had the chance they would od it all again.
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Reblogged this on Crazy Pasta Child.
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Aw, thank you so much. I appreciate your kind support.
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Such a lovely tribute to your mother. How giving to know that she was once a little girl with her own dreams. She was beautiful and must have had an enormous heart to have a little boy with so much love in him.
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Aw, you are turning this chimp into a blushing fool. She was a good woman who gave everything for love and family. Thanks for your kind words.
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This is the only picture of your mother? What happened to the others?
Your poem reminds me of my grandmother. She’s lived her life dedicated to her kids, and then her grandkids, for so long that I don’t think she remembers how to live a life where no one needs her. At some point in her life, she developed the opinion that worrying for someone is the same as loving them, and being unneeded is the same as being unloved.
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That is exactly what I was thinking of when I wrote these words. Everything comes before their own needs. By many people standards she was an ordinary woman, but the self sacrifice that she made made her great. Thanks for reading. And through lifes tragedies I lost all the photos I have.
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I also like how you can only see the one woman in the photo. The other’s face is distorted by the age of the picture
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Never noticed that!!! That is kind of cool. Wow thanks.
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Touches too close to home. Wonderful write, friend.
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That could have been you in the photo, right?? I know you make sacrifices for your children. Hopefully, when they grow older they will shower you with the appreciation you deserve.
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Beautiful, touching poem…
thank you.
All mothers need to hear those words, sometimes.
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Smiling. Thanks for saying that. I am glad you enjoyed. Mother’s make a big sacrifice that is sometimes forgotten. Thanks for stopping by.
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Beautiful picture, beautiful woman, beautiful imagery, beautiful poem. Well done.
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Thank you so much for stopping by to read and comment. I appreciate it. And I am so happy you enjoyed it.
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Your mother is Linda! As beautiful as your poem… π π
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Smiling. Thank you for saying that.
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I have to ask you to forgive me. Sometimes i dont express myself so well and it is a mess…. When i said “enough” i was talking to myself… as i always do…. It is a pleasure talk with you. π π
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Haha I understood. Be happy and well.
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