only the ocean and me

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only the ocean and me

It wasn’t the best of weekends. I read a threatening poem dedicated to a friend. Meanwhile, another friend received angry, unkind messages because of a post I shared on Friday.

My blog has been a vehicle for me to promote women and love. There has always been one constant message – positivity.  It is all I know.

I refuse to condone, accept, or promote hate, envy, bullying, or violence. Love, acceptance, and understanding are the cure.

During my worst moments, I always retreat to my favorite lady. She always resets my mind, my inner peace, and priorities.

I often feel these lyrics by Jack Johnson were written for me.

When this work is done
And this coat is dry
When this world is too much
It will be
Only the ocean and me

When these sails go up
Mountains fade away
Stars come out
I’m finally free
it’s only the ocean and me

Photo taken by me earlier today.

251 thoughts on “only the ocean and me”

    1. Diane, I will never understand why people waste their time and energy on negative feelings and hate. Makes no sense. Thank you for your gracious support and kind words. You are one of the beautiful souls that make blogging a wonderful experience.
      Thank you.

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    1. People do suck. That is the world we live in today.
      Happy you liked the photograph. I sat there for several hours admiring the view listening to my favorite songs. The ocean always rights my wrongs.
      Thank you for hsaring your kind thoughts. Truly appreciate it.

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    1. Drives me crazy as well. I will never understand how some people can be so bothered by positive messages, love, and friendship. Very sad indeed.
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
      You have always been one of the bright lights in this world.

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  5. Oh…
    I had no idea, and it hurts me to know people on here could act in such hateful ways. Ways that ripple their way across the oceans of the world, and upset the equilibrium of hearts everywhere.

    “Love, acceptance, and understanding are the cure.”

    I could not agree more. I hope you and the others affected (I’m kind of linking the dots here) – people I consider my friends – are ok. Un-effing-believable. Hugs to you all.

    Beautiful song and picture by the way

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    1. Rachel, no matter how positive we try to be, there will always be those sick angry few who was to disturb the brilliance and beauty of others. That is the state of the world we live in.

      I can’t speak for the two amazing ladies who I consider my closest friends. I know they are both strong and resilient. Women who are fit to be leaders. I can’t tell you enough of how the two of them have been so supportive to me. I would do anything for either of them.

      Not a photographer, but even I thought that was a pretty amazing image. As for the song, anything relating to the sea will always resonate with me.

      Thank you for always being you. There is othing in this world more beautiful than that.

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      1. I think that making a post about it is the perfect response. Not only does it rise above the hating, but it strengthens connections of love and friendship when people (like all those commenting here) stand beside one another.

        Wishing you a great week Andrew. And thank YOU for always being you, I’m always grateful for that.

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              1. I do know that, so I do feel privileged! Don,t get me started with emojis, it’s a slippery slope. The amount of time I’ve spent, debating correct emoji usage with myself…. Couldn’t say it’s time well spent LOL

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                1. All jokes aside. I always feel awkward with the whole emoji thing. I write romance and I imagine you have noticed most of my following is female. I always feel strange giving them out. Don’t want to make anyone feel awkward. So I really fret it.

                  I usually stick to the simple xo reply. Any thoughts or advice. And I am being very serious.

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                  1. I actually completely understand your seriousness, and your fretting of it!! ‘Casual’ emoji usage is actually quite difficult – “what does this colour mean, what will he/she think if I use that one for him/her but don’t next time, or i used a different one for the other commenter” etc etc etc. Thats what I mean about it being a slippery slope. Once you start you can’t stop and then you have all these internal debates… Honestly, I don’t think people can say it means nothing because I think when you don’t have other interpersonal info to go on (body language, facial expression etc), all those colorful little pictures suddenly start taking on a life of their own. Like they are our body language or something…. And often I just follow the lead of others.

                    Emoji use haunts me. I like your approach of none or not many.
                    xo

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                    1. You have read my thoughts. Rachel you never cease to amaze me. You expressed everything I have always thought. I am always so protective of my message, so emojis have always been a worry for me.
                      Thank you for this talk. Really makes me feel better. xo

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                    2. Oh!! Well, I’m glad my rambling was of some use. I am in awe of how you manage yourself and your blog. I think you make each and every one of your followers feel special, and sometimes even amazing, but you still are true to yourself and any boundaries you want to have. You make it seem easy, but it’s not, it’s rare and unique, and very talented.

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                    3. Again, reading my thoughts?
                      I do my best to interact without giving the vibe of being a creep.
                      I don’t want anyone woman to feel I am going to hit on them.

                      But honestly, I struggle to keep up. With every post, my email is filled with comments of ladies to shy to comment on the blog. So it is a challenge to try to keep everyone happy.

                      Thanks for your kind words and advice. Tonight, you made me feel like I am doing something right. And that feels good.
                      Thank you.

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    1. Ivor, thank you for gracing my little corner of WordPress with this beautiful song. Never heard it before, but i can so relate to it. Something about the sea always calls out to me.
      Thank you my friend. You are one of the reasons blogging can be such a rewarding experience. Always grateful.

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    1. Sadly. there will always be a hater longing to tarnish another person’s brilliance or happiness. That is why I always find you so beautiful and amazing. The love inside of you is always shining bright.
      Thank you.

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    1. Appreciate your stopping by to leave your beautiful and supportive message.
      Thank you very much for your kind words.
      The two ladies, and I are people who bellieve in the power of positivity.
      My friends are great examples oif what every human should be.
      Again, thank you for your words.

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      1. You’re welcome! I hope you and your friends are feeling better and putting the negativity behind you guys. I can’t imagine how awful it feels to be the victim of cyber bullying. Words are so powerful and we should use them for positivity and kindness, like you do on your blog!

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  13. First that photo…wow!!! Absolutely stunning. Reminds me of a friend’s home in Greece. Having just landed in England yesterday, I will soon post a few of my own.
    I’m sorry that there have been threatenings and awful things written! That’s really sad. Jealousy, envy, pride and greed…such ugly emotions. You have always been a promoter of love…sad to see that some people will turn anything into a negative.
    Nature has always been my favorite place to turn to when the world and humans turn ugly. Having had a recent not so nice interaction with a male flight attendant on a plane who completely misunderstood me, I’m looking forward to going to my little village tomorrow and enjoying the forests and ocean myself. (Though my first day in London has been a joy!)
    Your real friends have your back and always will. Sending love and hugs xoxoxo

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    1. A breath of sunshine just arrived. First, happy you arrived safely. Please enjoy every oment of your vacation to the fullest.
      I know London is your happy place, much like Florida is to me.

      Love that photo myself. Stunned that I could take a photo like that with my cell phone. Anxious to see your photos. Yay.

      Regarding these messages. It is quite sad. Don’t know why there isn’t love and acceptance in this world. When I saw hurtful
      messages coming acorss my blog, I was horrified. All I ever talk about is love. I guess that bothers some sad frustrated
      people.

      Bad flight attendant. That is really terrible. It’s not like you can get off at the next stop in ten minutes.

      Enjoy the vacay. Post pics. Anxious to see how it’s going for you. Enjoy nature to it is one of the blessings given
      to us.

      Always appreciate your thoughts Melissa. xoxo

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  14. Oh and this thought came to me while I was strolling the quiet Sunday night streets of London (only time of the week that you can apply the word “quiet” to London. Ha!)…”Follow your heart and the magic will find you.” I’m discovering more and more how true this is. Follow your heart Drew…you just keep on being the wonderful person that you are. ❤

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    1. You have me beaming Melissa. Truly inspiring thoughts my dear. I could use some magic, so I will
      follow your advice. Thanks for the beautiful praise. Don’t know if I deserve it.

      Enjoy the London nights. Let me know how is the moon and sunsets there.
      xoxoxo

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  16. Wonderful photo. Like the other comments, sorry to hear about the hateful people. I don’t get it. It Is What It Is is right. Life is way too short, and you realize how short life can be when you’ve stared death in the face.

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  17. I am so sorry to hear about these experiences. Don’t take it to heart. When we creatives put our work out into the view of the public, some people react badly to our views and beliefs. It doesn’t mean our views are wrong. Actually, it usually means we are right and we have disturbed a reader who has reacted negatively. That is the nature of our art. Hugs.

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    1. Oh, since I am originally from New York City, I have hard skin. I was upset because it was two close friends
      who were attacked. Once I connected with the sea yesterday my head was in a better place.

      So, I am ready the day my writing is out in public. There will always be haters and everyone wants to be a critic.

      Thank you for your wonderful words of support. They are greatly appreciated.

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  18. It is sad and disappointing ……… I hold that friend of yours close to my heart and of all I know the only thing her footprints leave behind is warmth ………..it’s a shame that people have no tolerance for affection

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    1. Yes, it is disappointing. Our mutual friend is a wonderful person full of so much laughter and love.
      She didn’t deserve it. No one does.
      Thank you for your warm, beautiful words.
      Your brilliance always shines through, even through the dark hate.
      Thank you. xo

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  20. Some people are just beyond reasoning. They are irritated with everything, even love means nothing to them. What to do? Just go on spreading love. Beautiful song.

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    1. Smiling so hard. That has always been my plan. Spread more love.
      Thank you for the advice and beautiful words.
      Some people just refuse to let light and love into their hearts. It will be their loss when they become bitter old people.
      Again, thank you for sharing your thoughts. It is always appreciated.

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  21. I hope all the negativity goes away quickly. I had some thrown my way too and I was not having it.

    The picture is lovely as is Jack Johnson’s music. 🖤♥️

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    1. Smiling. The image and song do conect with me. As do your lovely words of support.
      Sorry, any venom or harsh words were hurled at you. No one deserves that.

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this difficult topic.
      I appreciate your kindness and support.

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  22. Let their souls rot in hatred. Only a brave person would dare to love and teach others to do the same. Nature is a magnificent healing force… I really hope you’re feeling much better.

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    1. Smiling. I am feeling much better. Thank you. A little time away at the sea can be so rejuvenating.
      Yes, nature is full of magical healing. Always turn to her in my toughest days.
      I will continue to promote love. It is the only thing I know.
      Thank you for your beautiful words. They are greatly appreciated.

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  23. I had always thought WordPress is a safe haven…an oasis in the dry, harsh, dusty social media. Sadly, it seems it is not so. A blogger I know, quit blogging because of some vicious, hateful comments. I have not faced it but I know there are people out there spewing venom. Take care. Hugs and please try not to let this affect you.

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    1. For the most part, WordPress has been a safe haven. Love your thoughts of it being an oasis. I lost some blogging friends
      because of bullying. Sadly, hateful people from Facebook and Twitter have entered our peaceful realm.

      Thankfully, my two friends are strong independent women. They will not let angry people scare them away.
      Thbey are full of love and inspiration, so they will not less this stop them.

      As for me, I will keep spreading the same repetitive message until everyone face turns blue….love, love, love.
      Your words are always treasured. Thank you.

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      1. It is an oasis for I have received so much love and met some wonderful friends here. Kudos to both of your friends (one of them I know and admire). Through you, I would like to assure them that we outnumber this small tribe of trolls.
        Know that you are loved for the message of love you share. Always…

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        1. I feel the exact same way. It has been an oasis of love, appreciation, and inspiration.
          Thank you for your beautiful and supportive words. You follow both of me friends. So,
          I am sure they will be happy to read your lovely comment.
          Thank you always

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  24. Hey.
    I’ll begin and end this with my warmest hug for you.

    I love your kind and gentle heart for posting this today.
    I couldn’t possibly agree with you more, Andrew.
    That type of behaviour has no place here, especially on your blog which does nothing but promote love and happiness and acceptance.
    I can’t abide bullying. Intimidation. Not in any form.
    I won’t allow myself to be bullied, attacked, abused. Not here.
    Thank you for saying all this. You can’t imagine how many will appreciate you all the more for speaking out
    Your true friends love you and appreciate you for the beautiful soul you are.
    My warmest, most heartfelt embrace for you.

    ❤️🔥

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    1. To see your words here, touches me so deeply. When I reblogged your post on Friday, I only meant to share laughs and have others join in the magic of our friendship. I never imagined anyone would be spewing their anger towards you.

      As i told another one of my friends, I know you are strong and resilient. Perhaps, even strong than me. (We will have to meet to muddle wrestle or have a pillow fight to determine who is stronger. lol)

      Heartfelt embraces back to you. I wish my hugs could eliminate all the ill that ou have ever felt. A beautiful soul like you, should only receive love and kindness.

      Thank you for aslways being there for me.

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      1. How could I not place my words here for you? Impossible 💋

        I know, honey. I know why you reblogged. It was supposed to spread some joy and warmth and smiles. And it did. I received so so much affection and support and kind words from a lot of your beautiful friends. It really made me so happy and I hope I have thanked every single one of them enough.
        The things that were said to me hurt me a lot. I didn’t respond. I wanted to rise above. So I ignored. But I have been called many things in life and I felt like here…in my private, creative and love filled space, I couldn’t take it. And I won’t. This …that you wrote today… touched me so deeply and I cannot thank you enough for being my best friend in the world once more. And everyone here can feel your heart.

        A pillow fight…lol. I can be a fiesty little scrappy thing when I want to be!

        Thank you for everything you have said about me here and in the other post and in general, for being you: true and genuine YOU.
        Your hugs DO eliminate the hurt. They really do. Promise.

        I will always be here for you.

        A heart full of hugs and love and happiness for you.

        Your,
        Fiery
        ❤️🔥

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  27. Querido amigo, I love your page and your work, and so many people do…Yes to creating healing and positivity through words! When people write hurtful things, its always a projection
    of their own inner turmoil…nothing, nothing, nothing to do with the receiver of such negative vibes…wishing you and everyone affected a powerful shield of love that lets nothing through but love 🙂 Many hugs!

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    1. A power shield of love. A warm thought of brilliance. Wish this really existed. The world could
      use such an invention. Perhaps, it could stop the bullying that takes place in social media and in
      many schools.

      Healing and positivity through love is all I know. It has always been the goal of my blog.
      Thank you for your beautiful words. Hopefully, these hurtful people will be touched by the light
      of love and learn to treat people differently.

      Thank you for your encouraging, healing words. I feel blessed to have met you.
      Mucho hugs right back.

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      1. Drew, same here. I feel blessed to have met you! You and your followers are people who understand the power and responsability inherent in language…in how we use words….it´s similar to a knife I find, in that a knife can be used to cut the most vibrant veggies for a yummy soup, or it can be used to cause serious harm with unforeseen ramifications…

        Bullying…what a symptom of deep unconsciousness…Thankfully, there are counteractions and there´s the sowing of love like the one happening through your work! Thankfully there are people who are aware of their power to create or destroy… Sending you the biggest hug and much love! You rock! Abrazotes 🙂

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  29. All I can offer is my shared sadness, and perhaps a plea for those whose own issues and problems cloud their vision of a less hostile world? I view your blog as a celebration of femininity and beauty, as do most of us, I’m sure.

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    1. Beautiful words my friend. I do hope these people can find love in their heart and acceptance
      in their soul. Hopefully, they can discover it soon, before they waste their lives away spreading
      angry messages and hate.

      Your view of my blog, well, it gave me incredible chills. I have never heard it phrased like that.
      I have always been about the messages of love and the magnificence of women, so your summary really
      touched me.

      Thank you so much for these amazing words and your support. It is greatly appreciated and treasured.

      .

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  31. Love the song and the video. The ocean is truly my Happy place!! Hoping for a better week for you! Sorry about the hate messages that you got. So sad that people have to do that.

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    1. The ocean is my happy place as well. The sea always calms me with its peaceful, steady waves.
      Happy to hear you feel the saem way, too.

      Thank you for your beautiful appreciation. Your kind and sweet message helps to erase some
      of the ugliness. Reminds everyone, there are good caring people.
      Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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  33. Aw, Andrew! I ran into “nasty” “unkind” disrespectful” people this weekend and it was just so shocking I was “shocked” into silence. I don’t get it. I don’t understand how anyone can be so empty inside that they project their emptiness onto others. I promote Beauty! And darn it, just like you, I won’t stop! BIG (((HUGS)))!!! xoxo

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    1. So sorry, that you just had your own ugly incident this weekend. To experience in social media is hurful.
      To see it in real life, well, that can leaves scars. I hope you were able to get past this shock.
      You don’t deserve it. No one does.

      Your blog is all about beauty, nature, love, and inspiration. The same positive things I try to inspire with mine.
      I am so grateful you stopped by to share your experiences and thoughts. You never fail to inspire me.
      Thank you so much. Hugs right back. xo

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      1. Bless you for your genuine concern, Andrew. Your heart is so big and loving! Yes I’m OK, thank you. It’s just such a shock to my system because when I cross paths with those who are cold and nasty, it is the farthest thing from how I would act. You’re right … no one deserves to be mistreated in any form. xo

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  35. Ohhh Drew..no matter how positive we are or even good we are..there would always be some people who will find way to find you fault..and that’s life.
    I love that you take it so easily this way.

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    1. Deep sigh. I will not let this distract or deter me from delivering my favorite message – love.
      Sadly, some people have not adapted well to something in their life, thus they feel compelling
      need to rain on someone else’s parade.

      I can only hope, these people one day see the power of light and positive thoughts, then they
      can turn their lives around, and join the rest of us. Life is too short to hate.

      You like the way I take it easy. Made me smile with this one. Again, life is too short. I can’t
      let these people turn me into the very thing I find so unpleasant. So, we just keep shining light
      and love in the world. Sooner or later, the message has to get through.

      Thank you for your beautiful words and treasured support. I am grateful for your visit and for you
      sharing your thoughts. xo

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      1. I have been following you for years and see nothing wrong with all of your posts..keep writing Drew…you make “love” more meaningful with your celebration of a “woman” in your poetry.

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  36. I’ve always before felt like I could at least understand people’s negative reactions- to borrow from the trolls song in Frozen, “people make bad choices when they’re sad, or scared, or stressed” and in real life, you can almost always find that underlying reason and address it, if you want to, or let it go because it doesn’t reflect you… but online it’s like a different set of rules applies; maybe it’s still because they are “sad, or scared, or stressed” but the trigger is smaller and the responses bigger and uglier than it would be if they were face to face… but one thing remains the same – it is a reflection of them, not you nor the women you are promoting.
    Thank you for sharing your light with the world.

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    1. Profound and beautiful thoughts and words of support. I well know these moments of people
      spewing their hatred or angefr are ot a reflection on me. They simply have a problem in their
      life as you stated “sad, scared, or stressed.” I usually brush these thing off with a smile
      and a shrug. Except, this time it was directed to my two dearest friends. So, that shook me
      up.

      A day by the sea reset my head. Ready to deliver the message I have always delivered. Love
      and the beautiful power of women.

      Thank you for your beautiful and motivating words. I am grateful for your kind words and
      thoughts. Will always appreciate this chat we had together. Thanks. xo

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      1. It’s always worse when people we care for are threatened or hurt – then there’s feelings of guilt and/or helplessness because we couldn’t protect them.
        A day by the sea is the cure for many ills; I’m happy you got to enjoy and reset.
        ❤️

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  37. Thanks for standing up for your friends and the values of love, kindness, and inclusion Drew. I suspect you stir people’s emotions and triggers with your passionate poems about love. And the recent poems and comments with you and Fiery were especially passionate. Maybe they’re in pain and reacting from their pain. I hope we all learn to live in peace, love, and inclusion. Hugs my friend.

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    1. Brad, love your comment. Fiery and I have such a close and wonderful friendship. She has been very supportive
      during my hard times. So, when I saw she and my other close friend were attacked, it deeply wounded me.

      A day by the beach and sea brought me back to my senses. Everything is wonderful again. Both of these special
      ladies reached out to me today, so my world is right again.

      Peace, love, and inclusion. What a world that would be.

      Thank you for youe insightful words, carng thoughts and wishes, and the much needed hugs.
      All are treasured Brad. Thank you for being the special person that you are.
      Will always appreciate that.

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    1. Smiling. It is the only attitude we should have. Life is much too short.

      As for sporeading love and romance, it is the only thing I know how to spread.
      (Well, that is if we don’t count the jelly on my morning bagel).

      Thank you for your wonderful support and beautiful words.
      You are always an inspiration.

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    1. My mother drilled those very words into my head. You have nothing nice to say, don’t say anything.
      Sadly, not everyone was paying attention when their mother gave this lesson.

      It was a spectacular view. I don’t think my cell phone did it justice.

      Thank you for sharing your wise thoughts and words.
      Always appreciated Diana. Bless you.

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      1. What a beautiful image! Yes, embraced my mama nature, pains and negative interactions can melt away easier…nature is so precious. Love the ocean, just like you do. It is such a powerful yet soothing friend!! Siii, tortugas son fantasticas!! “Met” some in Western Australia, and in Bali, and they were all pretty cool, if you ask me 😛 Abrazotes!!

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        1. Did you post the photos of the tortugas? I will have to search for these posts.
          Arbrazos.

          Just so you know, I will be closing comment on this post. I don’t want to leave this post about negative
          words and thoughts open. I want to concentrate on positivity and love.
          Gracias for your understanding.

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        1. Are yaar!!(hey my frinend) now i am in fever .her i am some frustrated because of a frustrating.that was my fault but knowingly i had commented some bad thing on Andrews ‘s blog.he and her friend are angry with me.i i said both sorry hundred time.but main reason are he.he complained firstly about his female friend Gabrialla(G) and i understood that is fairy.oh my God.Only HEcan help me.we both talk by email.plz tell me-here what have i done wrong.G is most nice,kind,most educated women and professor in some university.i don’t know-what should i do.?left this problem.you have remembered just now.my restless heart are so much happy.my this poem”September” is written by me in memory of my first only beloved who had studied with me in Rajasthan University.i have lost him but his memory walk with me step by step as becoming my soul.hope-you are understanding.you have commented just now but i was remembering you for a week.most welcome with many love.Big hugs to you,my dear mitra!!🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

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          1. Hi dear mitra, you know, I am not sure if I understand your situation properly, but in my experience most challenges like that are due to misunderstandings in communication.

            Also, what I find helpful – have you heard of the book “The four agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz? In one of them, he says “Don´t take anything personal. Nothing others do is because of you.” I try to remember this often, when I am struggling with people-related concerns… hope this helps, dear:)

            So lovely that you dedicated that poem to your first beloved. I am sure his soul might sense this on some level – nothing and no one ever gets truly lost in my experience…Love is stronger than death…I have remembered you also, throughout the week, dear friend. Much love and big hugs!!! 🙂 xoxo (and thanks to Drew for accepting this conversation on his blog, haha, gracias amigo, besotes)

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            1. Oh my dear dost!!how much you have positive natured .i will try to read Don Miguel Ruize.thanks for helping and nice suggesting me.you are really like a pure soul.be well ,amigo !!💖💖💖💖💖💖💞💖💞💞

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            1. Yeah.for remembering you by me🌷🌷🌷🌷my dear dost.Love and Big Hugs.we both are blessed by Andrews-the naughty author😉😉😉😉have a lovely and beautiful day.my dost gypsy girl.

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              1. Of course I remember you, dearest Aruna! You are such a lovely being. I remember you, even when I might not write immediately sometimes – your friendship brings me so much joy and gratitude!! Yes. we are blessed to have such an AWESOME friend in Drew!! Many hugs from afar dear Aruna mitra 🙂 xoxo

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                1. Yeah.you and me are such lovely beings cause of Andrew.if he don’t write the poem”ocean apart only thought away the we both are stranger for each other.so we should be thankful for him.so much kind hearted-Andrews Deran.a wonderful poet and person too.you are too most enthusiastic for friendship.in wordpress,i never see anybody friend like you.love and big hugs😊 xoxo.

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                  2. Awww!! If I could, I would jump on an airplane right now just to come over and give you a hug! Sending you a massive virtual hug. Yes, I agree, we need to thank Drew for making this possible!! Drew you are so lovely, wish all men were more like you! We are drowning him in compliments, Aruna, hope he likes it haha. I dont know if u meant Drew or me wih the enthusiastic friendship comment, but I am sooo happy I can call you both my friends!! I feel a lot of love for you both,even though we never met in person!! I am not this enthusiastic with everybody, Aruna, just with people who´s energy I adore 🙂 Love and hugs to both of you fantastic beings xoxoxo

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            2. Hey my yaar!! I have seen to you on blog.but no andrews.how has his face and how much his age.i said him many times but he said-he would see his face only his muse.😁😁😁😁
              Have a beautiful night.here is the time of day then there will be time of night.sweet dreams,my dear dost!!💕💕💕💕💕💕

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              1. Hola (hello in Spanish) my mitra, haha yes I understand your curiosity! I am the same 🙂 On your Gravatar picture, thats you, right? 🙂 Always happy to see more pictures of you and your life in India! Thanks for your lovely wishes – evening here now, wishing you a blessed day!! Hugs dear dost 💕💕💕

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  43. Shocked … Stunned … Saddened
    YUP, people have a way of hidingbehind the screens of their computers.
    They seem to lose sight of the fact that we all all unique in our own way.
    Pity the ones who do not have the forsight to know that good overrides evil.
    I hope you can continue to pen your beautifil poems for us to enjoy.
    Have a special week … healing prayers 🙏🏻
    Isadora 😎
    ps: awesome photograph ~~~ : – )

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    1. Isadora, it is very easy to hide behind a computer screen and spread venom. While social media
      and technology add so much to our lives, some angry people choose it to spread their awful
      messages.

      I am happy you mentioned our uniqueness. Our differences are the very reasons that we should
      come closer together. It is an opportunity for me to learn about you and your culture and for
      you to learn about mine. Sadly, people fail to see things this way.

      I will continue spreading the message of love. It is all I know.
      Thank you for your sweet words, support, and healing prayers.
      All of it is welcomed here.

      As for the photo, it didn’t do the view justice. The scene was stunning.
      Thank you my friend.

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    1. Laughing. Yeah, I had to share that view. It reset my mindset. After a day of watching that view,
      I was ready to return to my blog. The sea always does that to me.

      Thank you, ugliness is forgotten. I certainly hope the two ladies affected by this can put it behind them
      as well. They are pillars of strength. And seriously, I am still blogging because of the strength these
      two remarkable women have given me. They have been the pillars keeping me upright.

      Thank you for your wonderful comment and suggestion. I appreciate your kind words and support.
      Always treasure your thoughts. xoxo

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      1. I hope so as well. It seems like these trolls seem to give the ladies in your life a lot of crap, what gives? Perhaps they’re just jealous they’re not being serenaded with your poetry hehe 😉 You’re too sweet, take care xo

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  45. I hate to hear you had an unpleasant weekend 😔 I will say that you are an inspiration to me as well I know many others. I greatly appreciate your devotion to show women kindness.
    Something so deep when it’s just you and me, deep blue …
    I hope you have a better day 😊

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    1. Thank you. Once I reached that spot in the resort, I sat down to admire that view. My heart
      immediately filled with love and inspiration, and all was right again.

      You made me smile regarding my kindness towards women. As a child I watched my father beat my
      mother. I was too small to do anything to save her. Since she passed I have dedicated myself
      to help women, especially battered women. So your words of apreciation touched me.
      Thank you.

      Just me and the sea. There is something magical during those moments. I treasure every
      opportunity.

      Today has been wonderful. I was afraid I was going to lose tewo treasured friends. My
      best friends. They have both contacted me. So, my day is filled with light and smiles.

      Thank you for your wonderful, inspiring words and your kind wishes. You patted my soul
      and made me smile. Thank you for your kindness. Will always treasure that.

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      1. I am happy you found your peaceful place to treasure. I am happy to know and very thankful u didnt lose your friends. I am sure they treasure you more than you realize. Thank you for the wonderful smiles amd heartfelt words.

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  46. This is why i am anti-human 🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️😁
    People are too negative and too complicated nowadays….

    Alot of good wishes for u
    And best of luck

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    1. Mark Twain said it best. “The more I learn about people, the more I like my dog.”

      The world has become so negative. Everyone wants to be a critic. And it is usually destructive criticism.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Appreciate your kind words and wishes.
      xo

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      1. I wrote a blog on that… idk if u read it..
        As long as you are positive and have good intentions, you shouldnt worry what others think.
        As long as ur legal and valid in the code of law…. your not hurting anyone 😊

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  47. I’m so sorry your going through such bullying especially here on ‘WordPress’.

    You know how I deal with bullies? I had quite a few on my page long ago. I just smiled emoji at them and told them thank you for your generous outstanding asshole of the year. hahahahaha!!!!

    It’s true. I have a way of dealing with ignorant people like this. Trust me, they don’t ever bother me again.

    The music video is beautiful and I love the melody. 🙂

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    1. Charlie, I usually deal with these things well. I have the New York thick skin.
      But it was two dear friends who were attacked, two women who don’t have an ounce
      of hate in their hearts. So that really threw me off.

      Yes, the lyrics always resonate inside me. Something about the ocean that gets
      to me.

      Thank you for your brilliant words and magnificent support. You are a treasure
      my friend. One of the talewnted and bright spots in WordPress.
      Bless you always.

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  49. There is nothing more beautiful then the trail of sun light dancing across the waves, the sparkles as like diamonds shimmering over the water. I get mezmerized by views like that. Very nice, I loved the song, never heard it before, music is my go to, my white noise that keeps me from hearing the ringing in my ears. I added it to my playlist. Thank you.

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  50. Good for you for speaking out and my heart, thoughts and prayers are with your lady friends. We need to encourage and uplift one another not tear each other down with anger and cruelty. There’s too much unkindness, hate and violence in the world. We need to show the love and goodness of God to others.

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    1. There is too much hate and unkindness in this world. And we should not allow it to enter in this wonderful platform
      of self expression. Goodness, love, light, and God are the messages and words we need to always reflect.
      Thank you for sharing your wonderful thoughts. Always so appreciated.
      Hope you are well.

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